Overview
Welcome to your Bedroom! Grief is a normal human reaction, but it is one of the most painful emotional experiences that any one of us will have during our lifetimes. In addition to being an intense and painful emotional experience, grief also affects us physically and cognitively. Acute grief refers to the intense painful feelings we have immediately following the loss of a loved one. Although grief never “goes away” the intensity of feelings tends to lessen over time as grief finds its rightful and integrated place in our lives. Individual grief journeys are likely to be different from person to person and there is no single “right way” to grieve. Although everyone is likely to be different in how we grieve, we do know that some individuals struggle more with adapting to grief. Prolonged grief disorder (or PGD) is a condition that a minority of bereaved individuals will experience, but PGD involves prolonged and intense feelings of grief that do not improve over time, leads to distress and functional impairment, and typically responds to grief-specific treatments.
In your Bedroom, you will find resources about grief, how we understand it, and its effects on mental health. In addition, there are resources related to PGD, what it is and how to treat it, the unique experience of suicide loss, suicidal feelings that can arise in bereaved individuals, as well as how to get professional help when required. Use the Self-Care Journey section to keep notes about your own experiences and how you would like to care for yourself through your grief journey.
Survivor Stories
Calming Your Physical Self while Grieving
Bereavement and the Loss of Physical Intimacy
A Perspective on Coping with Unfinished Business
Mental Health: Seeking Support
Coping with Your Own Suicidal Feelings after Loss
Avoidance and Isolation while Grieving
Post-Traumatic Growth and Grief
Grief, Coping, and Reaching out for Support
A Surviving Father’s Words of Help
Resources
Bereavement and grief
Here is a resource that helps us understand bereavement and grief.
Validating grief
Speaking grief is a collection of materials that provide information about grief, how we understand it, and how to support people who are bereaved.
Grief and mental health
This resource provides information about the mental health effects of grief.
Prolonged grief disorder
The Columbia University Center for Prolonged Grief provides important information about understand what PGD is and how best to treat it. In addition, there are resources for finding a therapist trained in treating PGD.
Suicide loss
These are helpful resources for those who lost a loved one due to suicide.
Help for military families
The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) offers grief support to military-connected family members.
Finding a therapist
Some general guidelines for identifying a therapist.
Suicide and crisis support
If ever you are ever in crisis, you can access the 988 lifeline chat and text here where you will find 24/7 assistance.
Hear from a Professional
What is Prolonged Grief Disorder?
Acute Grief and How It Affects Us
My Journey
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